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Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting out of the Box

Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting out of the BoxAuthor: Arbinger Institute
Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers
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Pages: 216
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ISBN: 1576759776
Dewey Decimal Number: 658.4092
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Publication Date: January 5, 2010
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Amazon.com Review
Using the story/parable format so popular these days, Leadership and Self-Deception takes a novel psychological approach to leadership. It's not what you do that matters, say the authors (presumably plural--the book is credited to the esteemed Arbinger Institute), but why you do it. Latching onto the latest leadership trend won't make people follow you if your motives are selfish--people can smell a rat, even one that says it's trying to empower them. The tricky thing is, we don't know that our motivation is flawed. We deceive ourselves in subtle ways into thinking that we're doing the right thing for the right reason. We really do know what the right thing to do is, but this constant self-justification becomes such an ingrained habit that it's hard to break free of it--it's as though we're trapped in a box, the authors say.

Learning how the process of self-deception works--and how to avoid it and stay in touch with our innate sense of what's right--is at the heart of the book. We follow Tom, an old-school, by-the-book kind of guy who is a newly hired executive at Zagrum Corporation, as two senior executives show him the many ways he's "in the box," how that limits him as a leader in ways he's not aware of, and of course how to get out. This is as much a book about personal transformation as it is about leadership per se. The authors use examples from the characters' private as well as professional lives to show how self-deception skews our view of ourselves and the world and ruins our interactions with people, despite what we sincerely believe are our best intentions.

While the writing won't make John Updike lose any sleep, the story entertainingly does the job of pulling the reader in and making a potentially abstruse argument quite enjoyable. The authors have a much better ear for dialogue than is typical of the genre (the book is largely dialogue), although a certain didactic tone creeps in now and then. But ultimately it's a hopeful, even inspiring read that flows along nicely and conveys a message that more than a few managers need to hear. --Pat McGill

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Since it’s original publication nine years ago, Leadership and Self-Deception has become an international word-of-mouth phenomenon. Rather than tapering off, it has sold more copies each year since 2004 than it did in any of the first four years after publication. The book’s central insight—that the key to leadership lays not in what we do, but in who we are—has proved to have powerful resonances not only for organizational leadership, but in readers’ personal lives as well. Leadership and Self-Deception uses an entertaining story about an executive facing challenges at work and at home to expose the precise psychological processes that conceal our true motivations and intentions from us and trap us in a “box” of endless self-justification. Most importantly, the book shows us the way out.

This new edition has been revised throughout to make the story more readable and compelling. And drawing on the extensive correspondence they’re received over the years the authors have added a section that outlines the many ways that readers have been using Leadership and Self-Deception, focusing on five specific areas: hiring, teambuilding, conflict resolution, accountability, and personal growth and development.



Book Description

Leadership and Self-Deception uses an entertaining story about an executive facing challenges at work and at home to expose the precise psychological processes that conceal our true motivations and intentions from us and trap us in a “box” of endless self-justification. Most importantly, the book shows us the way out. The book’s central insight—that the key to leadership lays not in what we do, but in who we are—has proved to have powerful resonances not only for organizational leadership, but in readers’ personal lives as well.

This new edition has been revised throughout to make the story more readable and compelling. And drawing on the extensive correspondence they’re received over the years the authors have added a section that outlines the many ways that readers have been using this book.




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5 out of 5 stars An AWESOME book   August 19, 2010
S. Westerhausen
Leadership and Self-Deception is in a story format ( = easy read) and is about how to be a successful leader as an individual and/or organization but it can also be applied to family life. I don't know how else to describe it but it is a great book and definitely worth reading.


4 out of 5 stars Very Inspiring   August 8, 2010
BERNARDO H. N. SILVA (Rio de Janeiro, RJ)
Even though I agree with some commenters in that the book is lacking a little more info, this was a very inspiring book.

It really changed the way I relate to people, even to my wife. I'm trying to get my coworkers to read it too.

I recommend this book to absolutely anyone who wants to improve in relating to people.



4 out of 5 stars Very quick read   August 4, 2010
J. Harris (Arlington, VA USA)
This book flies by -- I consumed it in a 4-hour train ride. A little too simplistic at times but very easy reading. The key takeaway, that you lead best by treating others as people rather than objects, seems trivial but is subtle enough that I will probably read this again as I lead teams in business.


5 out of 5 stars WONDERFUL book for relating to people   August 2, 2010
Robin L. Piet (Idaho Falls, ID)
This book talks about a method for getting along with, caring about, and being cared for by, other people. Although the title makes it sound like a book for business people, it's also for getting along with anybody you have contact with. Some of the terminology is confusing, such as "getting out of the box", if you don't worry about that, but just think of the main ideas, it's wonderful!!


4 out of 5 stars Paradigm Shift   July 21, 2010
Jonathan Petersen

After reading Leadership and Self-Deception, it gave me a better understanding why I perceive others the way I do. The book is a narrative story explaining how a man discovered ways he has been self-deceived, and the results that follow his self-deception.

The process of this self-deception begins first with ignoring a prompting to serve another by treating them with respect and dignity. This first step is called self-betrayal.

After self-betrayal, one seeks to justify his or her action of mistreating another by enlarging ones good character and magnifying the faults of others. At this point they unknowingly encourage the negative actions of the other person in order to justify their self betrayal. The individual who betrays him or herself does not see them as the source of the problem, but rather the victim. Hence, referring to the title, becoming self deceived.

This book has helped me to see others as they really are: humans with needs just like myself. The book also gives good suggestions on ways to maintain a clear perception of others. It has caused me to look inward, and evaluate the motives for why I do what I do. I found this book applicable to my life, in helping me improve the relationships with my friends, family, coworkers and other acquaintances.

The book at times does seem a little repetitive, but I found it helpful to reflect and apply what I was learning to my personal life.

The book is easy to read and well worth your time. It is sure to give you a paradigm shift in the way you perceive others.





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